Always saddening.

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When you see a friend take their LJ down, though, seeing the final post before it disappears is almost worse.

I've debated taking LJ down, well, not seriously since I came closer to out of the depression, but still, this place started to feel too toxic to me.

Toxicity is still there to a degree, but that's part of the ever improving path, mapping the brain to re-route through or around the toxic parts. :-) My own little "dead zone".

So, for m_glow, who has always been a good read, and someone I enjoyed having on my flist, I'll hope his path and journey takes him where he needs to get to. And will be happy should I see him come back.

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[duelingrose.livejournal.com]

Don't go... some of us still seek wisdom.

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*heh* not going anywhere. Just remarking that every now and then, this place can be hella toxic. What helps is realizing that EVERYONE has some major stuff going on right now. Once you truly realize that you're not alone, not the only one to go through a set path, it puts a lot of things into perspective.

*hugs* What wisdom I have, I try to offer to any and all. And really, you're doing pretty darn good for yourself. I meant what I said about seeing the difference between the first comment I made to you, and where you've been, and how you've been posting, since.

Considering I've come out of my own demons, just a tad, and a lot more recently than I care to remember, I just have to remember where I was, & how bad it got, so I don't recreate it.

There are a whole bunch of phony sounding "platitudes" on how the universe actually works, how people are brought to you for a reason, that my brain is wanting to spout, but for now, we'll leave it with *hugs* :-)

[ankita-1.livejournal.com]

What happened to m_glow? I didn't get to see his goodbye post! I liked his journal.

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In a nutshell, he is backing away from that, going through his own "long dark night of the soul", and wasn't sure LJ fit in with where he needs to be and get to.

I wish I'd saved the entry in some way. As is, I'll hope that, like others who see a need to exit here, that he comes back eventually.